If your 40th anniversary is fast approaching, then I am sure you have thought about what you are going to offer your spouse as a gift. The question is, have you thought about what you are going to say them when it is time to exchange verses? Do you say the same thing every year, and now you want to spice it up a little bit by changing the game plan. Ruby wedding verses generally should mention the longstanding nature of your marriage, and the incredible bond you have formed with your spouse in the past 40 years.  After being together for nearly half a century, you should know all to well exactly what your spouse wants to hear.

Try to remember to keep their feelings in mind, as you are aiming at giving them an unforgettable reaction. You want them to remember why they have been with you for so long. Don't be afraid to make your ruby wedding verse long, and you could even make it several verses long if you'd like. You could come up with something like “The last 40 years being married to you has shaped my entire existence. I will always be grateful to the Lord that I have found you, and you have truly defined my life, and the experiences in it. I love you, and happy 4oth anniversary.” This simple two line verse will allow you to show your appreciation for your spouse in a very emotion provoking way.